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Golden Child: It’s Not All It’s Cracked Up To Be
If you were not the Golden Child in your narcissistic family, consider yourself lucky. It’s not all it’s cracked up to be.I can hear Scapegoats worldwide mumbling under their breath. And I do admit...
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Your Friendly Funny Neighborhood Narcissist
He (or she) is the neighbor you secretly call “The A**hole.” He’s always shoveling your snow or mowing your grass because you simply don’t do it right! He’s your friendly Neighborhood Narcissist or...
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Hey! Don’t Rush Me to Forgive, Forget and Get Over It
Anyone struggling to recover from emotional abuse has probably been told, “Oh, just forgive, forget and get over it!” What a slap to the face! As I chronicle my own journey of healing from...
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Who Owns You?
Who owns you? Yeah, you heard me right. Owns you. If you’re in a relationship with a narcissistic, they do. Lock, stock and barrel. Owned.I know. I was there.Just Waltz Right InThat’s what narcissists...
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Flash! Narcissism Leads to Perfectionism and Workaholism
"Perfectionism is probably the most common and also one of the most damaging characteristics of dysfunctional families," wrote John and Linda Friel in their excellent book An Adult Child's Guide to...
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A Love Letter To My PMS
What if PMS isn't just senseless misery and angst? What if it's trying to tell us something.That's what I've noticed! The more I understand and heal from narcissistic abuse, the milder my PMS!Could it...
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No, You’re *Not* Being Watched and Judged Constantly
When you’ve been surrounded by narcissists all your life, naturally you assume everyone thinks like them. Judges you like them. Hey! It’s self-protection. But they don’t, you know.Holocaust survivor,...
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Learning to Laugh, Live and Love Myself After Narcissistic Abuse
Last week, I turned thirty-six. I’ve finally decided that I’m so done with the pain, denial, false guilt and sundry miseries resulting from decades of narcissistic abuse. I want to be happy. I want to...
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Marriage after Narcissistic Abuse
On our fourth wedding anniversary, I remember back to the blissful day we said “I Do”…and how familial narcissism permeated our wedding and marriage from the very start.Pre-Wedding MeddlingSure, I...
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The Wonderful Gift of Anger
Artwork By Lenora “My dearest anger!"That's how Barbara Rogers begins her wonderful article about anger. She shows us how to embrace our anger as a wonderful gift, a rare and honest insight into the...
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